I know if the the tittle is kinda bit long and interesting & also make some of you curious. Let me explain, that’s a movie tittle. Yup.. a movie tittle. i’m gonna make some kind of review about it because :
1. I love it
2. Still excited about it ( coz i just watched it last night )
3. I inspired by it
4. Most of all.. I LIKE IT!!!
hahaha.. it’s easy to guess that i’m just madly in love about it. Ok… skip this obsession introduction and let’s jump to the movie before i getting to much exposed bout myself rather than the movie :b
Now.. this is it
Daryl Wein (screenplay), Zoe Lister Jones(screenplay)
Greta Gerwig, Zoe Lister Jones and Hamish Linklater
it’s a romantic comedy movie. First, i am interesting with the line of the cover ” From the studio that brought you 500 days of summer ” i have some kind of thought that it will be as much as interesting with the 500 days of summer, even one of my best friend said ” don’t be silly..it just the same studio, not the writer” but.. i keep on watch it and its worth it (note : my personal opinion, i don’t mind if you don’t think so )
this film is about a girl who gets dumped by her longtime boyfriend just three weeks before their wedding. In response, she sets out with a group of her closest friends on and adventure through life and love that will hopefully help her deal with coming up on 30 as a single woman.
this film is quite inspiring. sometime we already too comfort about our relation without considering the truth of the relationship. Some women maybe admire the perfect guy, the perfect wedding just like a fairy tale ( if you grown up with a fairy tale for your bedtime story, and thanks god that i’m not one of those kid ). When we grow up, everything isn’t the same as fairy tale. I’m not saying if i do not believe in “happy ending or happily ever after” but this life is much more that just a fairy tale. Sometime we have to faced a few relation with a different guy, term and condition before you find your Mr. Right
in this film, you will saw a women who just put her self before the boyfriend and too much obsession with him ( without she realize it ) and she forget about what she want, her own dream and herself.
when she broke up with him, she completely doesn’t have any idea about what she have to do. Her world is totally about him. This is one thing that we have to remember. we have to keep the balance between lover, friendship, work and also family. Don’t get to attach only to one of it. Once you lose it, you will end up like her. In a relationship, we have to be our self. Make him love you just the way you are. We don’t need to be anything that he want or always around him.. don’t loose your self. Sometime its good to loosen up a bit, and focusing on yourself ( note : please also communicate with your partner about it and discuss )
I’m so sad on the part when she totally fucked up and messed things up.. bu that was a process of her life before she find out her breakthrough. When i remember about my “fucked up moment” ( i’ve been there ) i’m so grateful that now i’m taking it as a part of my journey.. and i’m still standing here and keep on writing my story. lesson learned..
Before with point our finger to someone over our problem, we have to check our self first. It’s easy to blame it to others, but the truth is sometime you are the one who fucked up your self and messed things up.
Actually its a quite funny store ( for me.. and silly in a some part that i can tolerated it ) but i just try to get the message of this movie beside all of those things.
I hope that we always learn from every single part of our life and take it as a precious lesson & experience..
I wish I could say that this was someone elses fault.
That it was Luke’s fault, or Henry’s fault, or Alice’s.
But it’s not, it’s me.